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Presinus
Date sent: 2017/07/31 09:15:16
When I joined the server, I was the most positive person around.
I quickly made 2 buddies: Musketeer and Ck.
Musketeer stole from Ck, so Ck banned him.
I make another buddy: XiSlayer.
Touring RedEvo, I saw an obsidian room labeled "wither room." I was quick to mention withers break obsidian. In response, I was told withers don't do damage in the over world on this server.
Prison party happens, I didn't know the jail was actually for punishment, I thought it was decoration. Knowing withers do damage offline, but thinking they don't on the server, I spawn one as an irony-type joke with the prisoners.
Banned by Ellie and James.
7 days later, I'm back. Everyone shits on me because Ellie quit the server. XiSlayer is also gone, never to return.
The shit lasts forever. I have an opinion, it gets shit on. Someone else has an opinion, I shit on it, then get shit on for shitting on an opinion.
I am positive, neutral, negative, and real. Most people don't know what reality is like. They try to tell me what makes sense and what doesn't.
^ That's in game.

Now what's my reality?
Dad tried to kill grandma.
Dad is never seen again.
I live several years in poverty.
I move to the murder capital, leaving everyone I know behind (Excluding my mom and sister)
I'm diagnosed with multiple mental disorders.
I'm diagnosed with hearing loss.
I'm diagnosed with vision loss.
I'm diagnosed with a brain tumour.
Family, friends, pets, everything dies all around.
Joined military (super strict).
Worked a military job for 16¢/hour for a summer. (Disease and exhaustion happened everywhere)
I get a new job at $10.70/hour, hard work, but decent job in my opinion.
I'm sure I missed something, but that's most of the major stuff.
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Hrvy
Date sent: 2017/07/31 12:24:31
Cool
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Chip_Bruh
Date sent: 2017/07/31 12:26:24
kool life story,
how are we meant to reply to this?

do i need to divulge into my child abuse and mental disorders or?
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Hrvy
Date sent: 2017/07/31 13:57:41
Now whats my reality?

Brothers, sisters and my mother was killed
I was born with 1 arm much much smaller
My homes a plant
My dads girlfriend has memory loss
Someone kidnapped my dad
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Aouldrain
Date sent: 2017/07/31 14:07:21
Is this the so-called, "attention whoring" that i've heard of from the legends?
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Ruben
Date sent: 2017/07/31 14:38:31
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armzngunz
Date sent: 2017/07/31 15:02:32
I have a good life atm, can't complain.
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Presinus
Date sent: 2017/07/31 16:28:58
I don't need your attention, I just want people to stop asking "why are you so negative."
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Chip_Bruh
Date sent: 2017/07/31 17:04:38
as a kid i was abused, surrounded by drugs and alcohol. being beaten was the norm for me. my mother was mentally ill and depressed, trying to raise 2 kids whilst having one job and dating multiple abusive partners. school paid for my food, so on school holidays i didn't eat much. i was almost put up for adoption because of my behavioral issues and incapability to stop being hyper (Aspergers and ADHD).
i have several scars on my body from physical abuse, i also have self harm scars and terrible memories of my mother's ex trying to kill her, and also some awesome memories of my attempted suicide.
earlier this year i was in hospital which caused the diagnosis of yet more mental illnesses such as Depression and anxiety.

I'm diagnosed with multiple mental disorders.
-- so am i

I'm diagnosed with hearing loss.
-- oh no so is one of my old friends, he's not a bitch

I'm diagnosed with vision loss.
-- so... you mean you need glasses? FUCK THATS TERRIBLE

I'm diagnosed with a brain tumour.
-- i had a lump on my spine that was suspected cancer, i had to wait 14 months to get it removed. i now have a large scar where they cut into me.

those two middle points are pretty petty tbh, they are no reason to be a bitch. as for those other two, i dont allow them to effect my life. you're just attention whoring them.


but i keep it to myself a lot of the time, in fact i've only posted this here to show you that you're not the only person who has been through shit. but the only person to cry for attention from it.
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Chip_Bruh
Date sent: 2017/07/31 17:10:34
oh shit i almost forgot to mention.
i now live a 2 hour drive away from my mother and brothers, living with my father and controlling step mother.
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Chip_Bruh
Date sent: 2017/07/31 17:18:26
You see, anyone can tell the depressing side of their life. However they dont usually see the good things. im sure your life isnt that bad. you just want to excuse yourself for being a bitch.

for example, i had a shit childhood, however i am now a qualified manufacturing engineer, looking at higher level courses and University. I have climbed the ranks at my current job and have taken on a management course. i have passed my driving license and am looking at purchasing an Audi as my first car. i pay my way around life, i pay for my own food, rent, electricity, gas, etc.

I've matured a lot in the past year. I now have things that i never thought i could get. Being a shift manager of a fast food restaurant at the age of 17... that's pretty impressive. especially when you consider i plan to have a job paying 50-60k a year by the time i'm 20.

we can all stand around and be depressing, or we can shut the fuck up and get on with our lives.
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MONKEYPAWNED
Date sent: 2017/07/31 17:22:00
Presinus - Life can hard to the point where you lash out for absolutely no reason or even without realizing it. Does it make it right? I would say no but others may say yes....
My point to you would be, take one day at a time. Reflect on those who are kind to you and ignore those who are not.

"Time is the most valuable commodity mankind has. Yet we spend our time on those not worthy of it and neglect to give it to those who care for us." -monkeypawn
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AbdullahSumro
Date sent: 2017/07/31 18:33:25
I constantly feel like im underwater and that im constantly sponging everything around me, i also live next to a retard who always bothers me, and my other neighbour is a strict motherfucker who ruins everything, i also have another neighbour who is actually pretty hot but has a really high voice and always wears this weird ass hat, whenever i go to work im forced to make burgers 20x speed of what is normally expected, im the only cook in the massive restaurant we are in, we only have one cashier and my boss is super fucking mean, he is just greedy for money, my pants hardly fit anymore they feel sharp as fuck, and also in my spare time i like to catch jelly fish

Also i live in a pineapple under the sea
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thomasjones
Date sent: 2017/07/31 20:40:46
I got friendzoned today...
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ReCs_Puffz
Date sent: 2017/07/31 21:18:09
Story time. Once I got a 67 on a math test :(
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Gheesus
Date sent: 2017/07/31 22:54:21
Dude that's literally just life it isn't sunshine and rainbows shit happens that we can't control but we can control how we act negative attacks negative so stop being a little bitch to be honest it's rare to find someone without at least one mental illness or body illness people have it a lot worse than you so quit blaming your past for how you act
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Gheesus
Date sent: 2017/07/31 23:18:51
Must I remind you this is a minecraft server for FUN okay it's just a game I could go into another forum post and say why I cause drama but nah I don't
You have food water shelter even a computer to play games on you don't need to worry about where you will get your next meal or if that rash is fatal get over it and stop looking for attention cool thanks
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Woflie_
Date sent: 2017/07/31 23:26:01
Guys cool it a little, most of the points you guys have made are valid but ripping into someone like that will only make the situation worse, driving someone away and causing that person to become even more isolated leading to more negative feedback... it's a viscous circle. We all need to remember at the end of the day there's a real, living, breathing, feeling person behind every screen name.
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Presinus
Date sent: 2017/08/01 02:42:10
Thanks Woflie.
As for the rest of you, I was not referring to you. I was referring to all of the happy-go-lucky people without a worry in their life who ask the question. I'm not one for attention, I know others share equally bad problems. My life is peachy right about now.
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Presinus
Date sent: 2017/08/01 02:45:48
It's also hard to keep a positive mindset with the head-admin calling me a bitch so frequently.
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NicNac
Date sent: 2017/08/01 03:29:12
Uh I got a pretty normal life sparce the fact that my stepsister Is going to have another child at 20 and Is going to drive my dad that I only see on weekends, out of my childhood home, passed down from his dad, from his dad at least a few generations back.

Literally all because one bitch cant keep her snatch closed.

edit: OH I guess I shouldn't complain tho because I'm a teenager with a roof over my head, water and food to survive that doesn't like to get up at 7 to get paid.

But I mean its not THAT bad compared to others but It's still shitty.
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Aouldrain
Date sent: 2017/08/01 03:58:13
ay ten shun who rah
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Presinus
Date sent: 2017/08/01 04:51:56
Clearly the fact your first comment received little attention made you hungry for more, so you restated your point to squeeze a little bit more out of it. Real slick Aould.
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Hrvy
Date sent: 2017/08/01 06:31:07
Presinus id delete that reply if i was you its just sad

-post about being sorry for being a bitch
>acts like a bitch

-post every problem you could google and pretend your life is worse than everyones here
>tell auldrain of for attention hungry
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Aouldrain
Date sent: 2017/08/01 12:07:59
Actually, i posted it a second time to get a reaction out of you, as most internet trolls do. Come on Presinus, i thought you were smart.
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Aouldrain
Date sent: 2017/08/01 12:10:32
I have an opinion, it gets shit on. Someone else has an opinion, I shit on it, then get shit on for shitting on an opinion.

This is what we call sinking to a low. Don't do dat shit. (to both of the opinion shitter-onners)
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Aouldrain
Date sent: 2017/08/01 12:13:13
Oh, also, you are actually being an attention whore. Sorry for what's happened to you, but you're one of 7 billion people.
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Hrvy
Date sent: 2017/08/01 14:51:05
-1
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NicNac
Date sent: 2017/08/01 18:28:39
Bumping my application.
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MONKEYPAWNED
Date sent: 2017/08/01 23:47:42
"head-admin calling me a bitch so frequently" FYI: This is something you bring to Luigi. Luigi is a fair person and is very understanding of situations...bring this to Luigi's attention and you will see this behavior curved very quickly. Do not allow others to dictate your life. Ask yourself who's life is it and how you want to live it?
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Aouldrain
Date sent: 2017/08/02 04:36:01
Ask yourself who's life is it and how you want to live it?

Its my life and i want to kill people!
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Presinus
Date sent: 2017/08/02 07:38:29
Same Aould, same.
I mean, not in-game of course! That would be rude.
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Vango971
Date sent: 2017/08/02 11:49:05
Not gonna lie, I got no complaints
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Presinus
Date sent: 2017/08/02 17:12:02
Life is pretty good now. I bought a 500cc 5-speed standard-transmission motorcycle for $400 Canadian. It needs some work done, but it was definitely worth buying. I'm signed up for a hunter safety course, so I can finally hunt legally.
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ReCs_Puffz
Date sent: 2017/08/02 23:39:09
Busy man
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pr1tce
Date sent: 2017/08/19 01:57:12
"When I joined the server, I was the most positive person around." can you explain all of your toxicity on the forums????

fucking weeaboo
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pr1tce
Date sent: 2017/08/19 01:57:50
also nice grab for attention

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